Sunday, January 11, 2009

My Fourth of the Fourth Photo

After seeing Warren's open invitation to do a fourth photo from your fourth photo folder, I thought HEY. that's an easy blog subject! And since I like many others have been having "the after the holidays blogging blues", jumped at the chance for an easy blog. Until I checked my fourth album. (Hey, it's not your fault Warren)
I immediately decided to choose a different folder!!!
I was BLUE enough without opening another can of worms.
Then the more I thought about it I decided not to even do a 4th of the 4th.
I have been mulling this over for a few days, and decided that since I was already depressed I figured I might as well turn it into a tribute to my nephew Chuck.


Here is the 4th of the 4th photo

My son Eric, nephew Chuck and his brother Jason over 20 years ago.



JV Football


Varsity Football


Senior prom
After Completing High School Chuck found work and Went to an art school in Pittsburg, Penn. He was interested in doing animae type art. After 1 year of art school he returned home and back to work. He eventually decided to join the Army to get his act together.

He excelled in military life. He joined the Artillery and after 9-11 he was deployed to Kuwait as part of the 3rd Infantry Division and was with them in the push to Bagdad.
Here is his Paladin crew.
After his tour of duty in Iraq, the horrors of war weighted heavily on him. Chuck found a girlfriend and decided not to become a career military man, but to settle down and get married.
Chillin' on leave.
But 2 weeks before his enlistment ran out Chuck was re-deployed to Iraq. He was dreading this happening, but never-the-less was proud to return and do his duty.
1 week before Chuck was to come home on leave, we recieved news that he was killed in an IED explosion in Iraq.
A memorial service in Iraq.



His resting place at home, next to his grandparents.



Although Chuck has been gone for over 3 1/2 years, we still miss him daily.
He was a very bright star that vanished too soon. Along with so many others.

We pray for all of the servicemen and women and wish them a safe return, and thank them for their service to us and our country.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

My First Dog REBEL pt.3

In case you missed them you can read Part 1 and Part 2.

After I lost my job, we were forced into moving in with my in-laws for a couple of months until one of us found work. Since they had an inside dog, Rebel had to learn to spend his nights outside in a doghouse and a lot of chain time. When I wasn't working I spent a lot of time training Reb. Taking full use of living out in the country, I gun trained him. I started off using a .22 and worked my way up to a shotgun and then a high powered rifle. He was comfortable with all of them. I also took him for walks in the woods and worked on field commands with him. About this time my buddy Jeff and I took our German Shephards out for a little field trial work with guns. Both dogs were working together quite well and were marvelous to watch. During a rest break, I got a wild idea, stupid was probably a more correct word for it. But I was young and full of confidence in both me and my dog. I walked Reb out about 40 yards from the log I was sitting on and commanded him to sit and stay. I then walked back to the log and sat down. I spotted a small tree about 20 feet behind Reb with a branch that was lined up between the tips of his ears. I pointed out the branch to Jeff and then carefully aimed and shot. Rebel was watching me trustfully and didn't so much as twitch as the .22 bullet zipped between his ears and clipped off the branch neatly. I gave Rebel the command to come and loved him up dearly. Jeff was stunned for a moment and then had a few choice words for me. Yes it was a dangerous stunt and one that I never repeated, but I was so proud of "My Boy" I was about ready to bust. I took a bunch of his favorite training snacks (LivaSnaps) out of my pocket for him and praised him well. I knew that I now had a great hunting companion too in Reb. So loyal and trusting.

My wife got a job working second shift for a local plastic factory, making parts for automobiles and we moved into a very small trailer closer to her work in Caro. The people we were renting from did not want any indoor pets so Rebel spent his first winter outside full time. And it was a harsh one. To supplement his diet, my best friend Jeff and I found a spot that was just loaded with red squirrels. This is a small variety of squirrel that forces out the larger breeds and is considered a pest. We hunted them all fall and winter. I would boil them up and remove all of the bones and make a gravy which I put on Rebel's dry food. This hot food helped him survive the elements along with the triple insulated doghouse I had built for him. (And of course I did sneak him in during the worst weather).

Well this hot food is what caused me to get my nipped by Rebel one very wet cold day. I had set down his bowl and it started to slip around on the ice as he was eating, so I reached down to hold it for him. He snarled and bite at my hand, surprising both of us. I have to admit it was a scary situation, goosebumps and everything. He was already looking at me and knew he shouldn't have done that, when I started cussing him out. I reached down and picked up his bowl giving him the old "dominance stare" and after he looked away I continued holding it for a minute, set it back down and told him to eat. As he was eating I petted him then took the bowl away again. No problem. So I set it back down and held on to it so it wouldn't slip around while he ate.

When I went into the house I cleaned the blood off my hand and realized two things. I had caused this attack by my own stupidness of habit and I was very lucky to only end up with a couple of scratches. Here is where I had made my mistake.

As the stay-at-home-dad I would feed my baby daughter and then make supper for myself and my wife. Any left overs would go into Rebels dish instead of, or including his squirrel & gravy. Then I would step out the back door about 10 feet and feed Rebel. I was usually barefooted and coatless even in the worst weather, so I would just set down his dish and run back inside. Then dress Ang and gather our still hot dinner and drive to my wife's place of work. She would come out to the car and we would eat and spend some family time together.

So Rebel wasn't used to me hanging around while he was eating. The neighbor's beagle ran loose and was always coming over to eat Rebel's leftovers. I was sure that the treatment I received that day was not meant for me. It was a matter of circumstances. Freezing rain, wife's day off, and I was dressed to be outdoors because I had planned on checking out "my boy" during this harsh storm and to see to it that his bedding was dry. It never happened again and I continued to check his reaction to my hand not only on his bowl but actually taking food out of his mouth.


This became an important ritual, so that I knew that I had him trained for my daughter. During this outdoor part of his life, even though he didn't see Angie daily, he was still in love with her when they were together. And he was ALWAYS gentle as a lamb around her.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

2009


Oh. GREAT... I arrived at midnight last night, amidst all kinds of noise and confusion.
A bunch of drunks grabbed me and passed me around. Someone spiked my bottle and now I've got a terrible hangover. I"M SO HAPPY I COULD JUST SH_ _ oh I already did!!
Now no ones around to change me, so here I sit! What happened to everyone who was so happy to see me last night?
And now I have to try to live up to everyones expectations?
It's just TOO MUCH.
Well I guess I'll just sit here and wait.
The least they could have done was give me an instructions manual.
Well HAPPY ME everybody, Here I am.....Hello...is anybody there??

JUST MY LUCK....